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to say, to tell, to speak

👉🏽To express these 3 verbs correctly takes some clarification on when you should use each one. Simply knowing the definitions can create some confusion when trying to apply them in conversation.



👉🏽PARLER - to speak

Use parler when you want to talk about speaking a language, the act of having a conversation, the state of your speech. Here are some examples...

  • je parle quelques langues dont le français et l’anglais- I speak a few languages including French and English

  • je parle toujours à ma famille - I always speak to my family

  • il parle très doucement - he speaks very softly

👉🏽DIRE- to say

You should use dire to discuss specific situations where something is being said (presently) or was said (past).


Usually, it involves reflexive pronouns in reference to more than one person talking, so make sure you are well versed before using dire. For example...

  • il m’a dit que le magasin était fermé - he told me the store was closed

  • tu as dit quoi ? - what did you say?

  • je dis ça tout le temps! - I say that all the time!

  • tu dis 'bonjour' trop souvent - you say 'hi' too often


👉🏽RACONTER- to tell

This is the most specific of the three, and it's best used in the past tense because raconter refers to story telling or recounting events.


In French, the phrase raconter une histoire, means to tell a story but has a 2nd meaning: to tell a lie.

  • il m'a raconté une histoire - he told me a story (lie)

  • je te raconterai ma journée - I will tell you about my day



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4 Comments


Emery Lgarner
Emery Lgarner
Jun 27, 2025

As someone working with America SEO Agency, I can say clear communication is just as important in digital marketing — choosing the right word (or keyword!) at the right moment can completely change your message’s impact. Thanks for the language insight

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Kenna Morgan
Kenna Morgan
Jun 18, 2025

Great explanation! It’s really helpful to see the differences between parler, dire, and raconter with examples. Just like learning French verbs, understanding K12 online school requirements also needs clarity—knowing when and how to use the right tools makes all the difference! Thanks for the breakdown!

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Hannah Walters
Hannah Walters
Jun 16, 2025

Speak French Fast offers a clear explanation of how to differentiate between "to say," "to tell," and "to speak" in French, which is incredibly helpful for language learners aiming for fluency. The examples provided make it easier to grasp subtle nuances in usage. If you're a student juggling multiple tasks, an assignment writer Auckland based could assist in managing your workload, allowing more time for focused language practice. Understanding these verbs is essential for confident communication. Overall, this article is a practical guide for anyone learning French.

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Edward JWilliams
Edward JWilliams
Jun 13, 2025

Just like language, clear communication is also essential in professional services — especially when it comes to facilities management services London relies on. Whether in speech or service delivery, clarity and accuracy matter!

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